Thanks everyone,  Yeah now that I'm an owner of a 19 Ceramic Grey GT2  I'm hand washing  LOL I just bought anti streak glass cleaner, invisible glass reach, mothers wheel brush, Chenille microfiber wash mitts,  Meguiars Gold car wash ,  Micro Fiber drying towels, silicone water blade for windows, synthetic Chamois, Foam gun an extra bucket with a grit guard, bug cleaning sponge, and turtle wax bug & tar remover.    Hopefully I'll have it all covered.  Car is too nice to chance in the car wash,  maybe after a few years and rock chips but not when it's new.